Changing perceptions about male sexualityIn his groundbreaking new book, noted expert on teenage andadult masculine behavior Andrew Smiler debunks the myth thatteenage boys and young men are barely able to control their sexdrives, which may lead to destructive hyper-sexuality, unwantedpregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases. Dr. Smiler helps usrecognize that the majority of boys and men do not fit thisstereotype and that boys' sexual development ismulti-faceted. He also shows how this shift in attitude could helpcreate young men who are more mature, and have better relationshipswith partners and friends.
* Explains how the Casanova Complex has developed over time andhow it can hurt young males
* Provides the latest research on male sexuality, includinginformation from the author's own studies.
* Offers guidance for parents and counselors of boys who want tohelp them develop lasting and meaningful relationships, as well asfor the parents of girls who are dating.
This book dismantles the stereotype of boys as driven only by anobsession with having intercourse with multiple partners, and callsfor deeper growth and understanding of modern masculinity.

Acknowledgments vii
Introduction 1
Part I: Approaches to Boys' Sexual Development9
1. The Casanova Complex and Its Inaccuracies 11
2. Sexual Behavior During Adolescence 31
3. The Importance of Romantic Relationships 51
Part II: Why We Believe in Casanova 69
4. Evolution, Biology, and Casanova 71
5. Masculinity, Peers, and Identity 86
6. How the Media Promote Casanova 102
7. Appearance and the Casanova Complex 123
Part III: Challenging Casanova 137
8. Non-Casanova Approaches to Dating and Sexuality 139
9. Sexual Knowledge and Values 156
10. Intimacy 175
11. Challenging the Casanova Culture 191
Resources 205
Notes 211
References 229
About the Author 259
Index 261