Welcome to the deeper dimensions of interfaith dialogue—
exploring that which divides us personally, spiritually and institutionally.

"We believe that interfaith dialogue holds the key to a healing that calls us back to purpose and to meaning. We have risked confronting aspects of our traditions usually hidden, and the consequences have been deeply life-affirming. We risk becoming vulnerable as we share awkward and even unacceptable texts and interpretations, but it is this very vulnerability that allows our dialogue to move forward."
—from the Introduction

Expanding on the conversation started with their very successful first book, the Interfaith Amigos—a pastor, a rabbi and an imam—probe more deeply into the problem aspects of our religious institutions to provide a profound understanding of the nature of what divides us. They identify four common problem areas in the Abrahamic faiths:

Exclusivity: Staking Claim to a One and Only Truth

Violence: Justifying Brutality in the Name of Faith

Inequality of Men and Women: The Patriarchal Stranglehold on Power

Homophobia: A Denial of Legitimacy

They explore the origins of these issues and the ways critics use these beliefs as divisive weapons. And they present ways we can use these vulnerabilities to open doors for the collaboration required to address our common issues, more profound personal relationships, and true interfaith healing.

Preface vii
INTRODUCTION
What We Found at the Heart of Interfaith 1
Our Experience as "The Other" 2
The Stages of Interfaith Dialogue 5
Core Teachings of the Abrahamic Traditions 7
So Who Are We? 9
The Beginning of Healing 10
Toward Greater Healing and Hope 11
Some Suggestions on How to Use This Book 11
We Are the Healing That Needs to Be 13
CHAPTER ONE
Exclusivity: Staking Claim to a One and Only Truth 15
Exclusivity in Judaism 15
Exclusivity in Christianity 25
Exclusivity in Islam 34
Concluding Comments 45
Sharing Our Stories 45
Questions for Discussion 48
Spiritual Practices 48
CHAPTER TWO
Violence: Justifying Brutality in the Name of Faith 51
Violence in Judaism 51
Violence in Christianity 59
Violence in Islam 66
Concluding Comments 76
Sharing Our Stories 76
Questions for Discussion 79
Spiritual Practices 79
CHAPTER THREE
Inequality of Men and Women:
The Patriarchal Stranglehold on Power 81
Inequality of Men and Women in Judaism 81
Inequality of Men and Women in Christianity 88
Inequality of Men and Women in Islam 95
Concluding Comments 107
Sharing Our Stories 107
Questions for Discussion 109
Spiritual Practices 109
CHAPTER FOUR
Homophobia: A Denial of Legitimacy 111
Homophobia in Judaism 112
Homophobia in Christianity 118
Homophobia in Islam 123
Concluding Comments 133
Sharing Our Stories 133
Questions for Discussion 136
Spiritual Practices 137
CHAPTER FIVE
Underneath It All: God and Revelation 139
Rabbi Ted's Reflections on God and Revelation 139
Pastor Don’s Reflections on God and Revelation 146
Imam Jamal’s Reflections on God and Revelation 151
Concluding Comments 158
CONCLUSION
Going Astray toward Greater Meaning 159
We Go Astray in Order to Grow 159
An Invitation to Personal and Institutional Evolution 161
What You Can Do Now 162
Acknowledgments 165
Notes 167
Suggestions for Further Reading 169

Welcome to the deeper dimensions of interfaith dialogue—
exploring that which divides us personally, spiritually and institutionally.

"We believe that interfaith dialogue holds the key to a healing that calls us back to purpose and to meaning. We have risked confronting aspects of our traditions usually hidden, and the consequences have been deeply life-affirming. We risk becoming vulnerable as we share awkward and even unacceptable texts and interpretations, but it is this very vulnerability that allows our dialogue to move forward."
—from the Introduction

Expanding on the conversation started with their very successful first book, the Interfaith Amigos—a pastor, a rabbi and an imam—probe more deeply into the problem aspects of our religious institutions to provide a profound understanding of the nature of what divides us. They identify four common problem areas in the Abrahamic faiths:

Exclusivity: Staking Claim to a One and Only Truth

Violence: Justifying Brutality in the Name of Faith

Inequality of Men and Women: The Patriarchal Stranglehold on Power

Homophobia: A Denial of Legitimacy

They explore the origins of these issues and the ways critics use these beliefs as divisive weapons. And they present ways we can use these vulnerabilities to open doors for the collaboration required to address our common issues, more profound personal relationships, and true interfaith healing.