See also Dr. Nay's Taking Charge of Anger, Second Edition, which helps you understand and manage destructive anger in all its forms, and The Anger Management Workbook: Use the STOP Method to Replace Destructive Responses with Constructive Behavior, which builds core anger management skills using interactive exercises.
Introduction
I. Five Steps to Change in Your Relationship
1. Understanding and Confronting Anger: The Promise of Change
2. Recognizing How Anger Is Pulling Your Strings
3. Creating New Boundaries—Expecting New Behavior
4. Identifying the Thinking Patterns That Keep You Stuck
5. Taking New Actions and Getting Better Outcomes
II. Overcoming the Different "Faces" of Anger
6. Loud, Impatient, and "Over the Top": Confronting Hostility
7. When Words Do Hurt: Rejecting Sarcasm and Verbal Abuse
8. Threats and Beyond: Staying Off the Slippery Slope of Physical Abuse
9. Passive Anger: What to Do When It Seems Harmless but Feels Harmful
III. Making Boundaries Stick
10. Coping with the Expected and Preparing for the Unknown
Appendix: Daily Log
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