What if you could be the designer of your life? What if you could get on a boat and go on an adventure called ';you' and you don't have to know what that looks like?What if being a leader begins with choice?Are you willing to have the adventure of relationships?What if you could have a different possibility with death and grief? What can you create that would create more possibilities for your life?Do you include your body in all the ther- apies and all the medications that you are on and diets that you are trying? What would get created if you do?What is possible for you in business? And how much fun could you have?What invitation can you be to people to work with you?What business are you willing to create that nobody else does? Are you willing to do something different?

TABLE OF CONTENTSINTRODUCTION.............................................................................................................. 1 PHENOMENAL BONUSES ............................................................................................. 5 CHAPTER ONE: BE YOU AND BREAK THE RULES OF BUSINESS....................7CHAPTER TWO: RECEIVING THE JOY OF BUSINESS........................................27CHAPTER THREE: CURING THE INCURABLE.....................................................55CHAPTER FOUR: HOW TO GET THE RELATIONSHIP YOUREALLY WANT .............................................................................77CHAPTER FIVE: ARE YOU ADDICTED TO THE ILLUSION OF RELATIONSHIP ............................................................................103CHAPTER SIX: LEARNING TO LIVE AGAIN AFTER GRIEF............................125CHAPTER SEVEN: HAVING YOUR CAKE AND EATING IT TOO .................143CHAPTER EIGHT: LIVE BY DESIGN NOT BY DEFAULT ..................................167CHAPTER NINE: BE THE LEADER OF YOUR LIFE, BE YOUROWN BEST FRIEND ...................................................................193CHAPTER TEN: BEING DEFINITELY DIFFERENT.............................................215CHAPTER ELEVEN: THE ART OF CREATING BUSINESSFROM THE EDGE OF POSSIBILITY.................................227CHAPTER TWELVE: MY BODY BEAUTIFUL.......................................................253CHAPTER THIRTEEN: CREATING YOUR LIFE FROM CHOICE....................271ACCESS CONSCIOUSNESS COPYRIGHT NOTICE.............................................293THE ACCESS CLEARING STATEMENT .................................................................295CONTACT OUR CONTRIBUTORS ..........................................................................297WHO IS NILOFER SAFDAR .......................................................................................299 SESSIONS WITH NILOFER .......................................................................................301MAKE YOUR BOOK AN AMAZON BESTSELLER ...............................................303WHAT NEXT..................................................................................................................305MORE BOOKS BY NILOFER SAFDAR ....................................................................307 UPCOMING BOOKS ....................................................................................................309