Joni Brown's life was turned upside down when her daughter, out of nowhere, began having epileptic seizures at sixteen months and was diagnosed with autism at age five. Two books in one; first part memoir of raising her child with special needs with stories from medical mayhem heartaches to overcoming challenges with humor. Second part has parenting tips, offering first-hand practical advice and invaluable suggestions.

You'll learn

• First-hand stories from a mom who lives it

• What new parents can expect in this special life

• How to be your child's strongest advocate

Don't Sing Happy Birthday is a beacon of hope, encouraging parents to shift their mindsets, become strong advocates, and find the support they need to be the best possible caregivers and cheerleaders for their children living with extra needs. Joni Brown's heartfelt message is clear: You're not alone on this journey, and together, we can conquer the challenges and celebrate the beauty in our special lives.

Author's Note xiii

Part One: Unexpected Life

1. My Life-Changing Moment 3

2. Rapidly Educated in Autism 18

3. Beating My Self-Pity 32

4. A New Home in Cannabis Country 44

5. Don't Sing "Happy Birthday" 65

6. The Snickers Confession 69

7. Balancing Marriage and Special-Needs Parenting 72

Part Two: Parenting Strategies and Tips

Introduction 83

1. Welcome to the Club 85

2. Autism: To Tell or Not to Tell 88

3. Advocate Up 93

4. When Multiple Conditions Coexist 98

5. Seven Things to Know: The Lessons I've Learned 105

6. Financial Course Altered 112

7. The Mental Toll of Full-Time Caregiving 116

8. Transitioning to Adulthood 125

Thankful 130

Resources 133

About the Author 134